Showing posts with label disconnect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label disconnect. Show all posts

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Another Day, Another Tragedy

This happened way too soon.

Just two days after the Boston Marathon bombing, and now, an explosion in a plant in Texas.

The two are probably completely unrelated as far as how they both started (or at least, I hope so. I would hate for this to be a widespread attack...), but they are both tragedies that hurt us deeply. Only 2 days after losing 3, and placing over 120 more in the hospital, we now lost, potentially, 15 more, and placed another 180 people in the hospital. I can't take this carnage anymore.

But we're all here, sitting in our desks (or if you're like me, you clutter your desk and work from bed), riding our cars, going to work and/or school, eating three meals a day (or more), having healthcare located close by, and so much more. Our lives are so comfortable compared to most. And yes, these are tragedies, but there are tragedies happening all over the world EVERY SINGLE DAY.

In Iraq this past week, there were also bombings, and they killed about 46 people.

Yesterday, a bomb went off in Bangalore, India and injured 16 people.

Last Sunday, at least 20 people died in Somalia due to a bombing at the Capital.

Later that same day, a car bomb went off inside a government building, killing at least three and injuring another three.

In Syria, some fighter jets bombed cities, killing roughly two dozen civilians.

There are a million displaced people in Syria due to the fighting going on, over half of them are children.

In Venezuela, so far, 7 people have died and 61 have been reported injured, because of an election.

Two weeks ago, there was an ambush in South Sudan that killed another dozen people, at least 7 of them being civilians.

In Egypt, a cathedral was held in siege for 5 days, with Muslims and police officers attacking the Christians inside.

In Mozambique, 4 people were killed in a skirmish in attempts of freeing party members that were taken during a raid.

There are wars all over the globe now. I don't know all of them, but just to name a few: Mali, Syria, Iran, Iraq, Afghanistan, and so many more.

In Greece, migrant workers on a strawberry farm have been working for the past 6 months without any form of payment. When a group of 200 went to go ask for payment, the foreman opened fire and wounded 27 of the workers, one of them now in critical condition, and hurt another 33 in the scuffle.

In 2007, during the Kenyan elections, over 1,000 people were killed. This year brought about a new election, with fear of the same thing happening again. While this election had a much lower death toll, there were still a few dozen people killed in reaction to the election tensions.

Earlier this year, a fire broke out in Brasil, killing 232 people, with over 100 people in the hospitals.

Since November of 2011, there have been 791 violent episodes in Damascus, many of which have resulted in casualties.

In Nigeria, more than 10,000 people were made homeless last month due to the government plowing through their homes. At least one million civilians have been made homeless through similar actions by the government over the past year. 

And the list goes on and on and on and on and on.

There are hundreds, if not thousands of tragedies happening every day. Murders, rapes, children suffering from malnutrition and dying from starvation, slavery, and so much more goes on around us every day, and we don't see it. The media doesn't give it enough coverage, and we don't pay enough attention to it. It takes an enormous tragedy like a bomb or a fire that hurts hundreds in a short period of time for us to look around us and see these things happening. 

This time last year everyone was preaching Kony 2012 because someone made a cute video that stirred up our emotions. By the end of the year, no one even thought about Kony, and I bet that most of the people who bought bumper stickers and posters and pins don't even know the status of Kony and his army of child soldiers right now. It takes so much to get us to pay attention, and so little for us to lose focus. Two weeks from now, most people won't even have the marathon cross their minds.

It's sad, it really is. How can we claim to be passionate about human rights and stopping tragedies and suffering, if we can't focus on an issue for longer than the next big thing? If the Grammy's or some other big event were this weekend, we'd forget about Boston by Monday. All those Pray for Boston hashtags would be forgotten, and it would be like it never happened. Except, of course, for the people directly affected by it.

It's so easy to sit comfortable at our desks and couches and cars, and go out to eat at nice restaurants and be a jerk to the person at the drive thru window. It's easy to hashtag something or send your condolences for people. It's easy to SAY you're a good person, or it's easy to SAY that you're humanitarian and you care about everything. But when do those things that you SAY you are and you do, actually become who you are?



Wednesday, April 10, 2013

The Delightfulness of New Blogs

Hi, my name is Brunna Caroline D, and I am a procrastinator.

That's Step One to recovery right? Yea, well I've been admitting that I'm a procrastinator for a long time, but still no improvement shown. Such a shame.

Anyways, procrastinating is kinda my MO. I wait until the last possible minute, do the work really rushed, somehow still do a pretty good job, and get a better grade than the kid next to me who worked for the grade weeks before hand. So you could say that I just lack the motivation. And I am now reverting to my extremely unhealthy ways of procrastinating. On Monday I woke up at 8am and wrote a nine page paper by 1 45 with a few breaks in between, so I figure I'll be okay writing this five page tonight.

Anywho, getting to the point. I just discovered this website on Pinterest yesterday, and I'm just obsessing over it. She has the cutest things on it! Plus some good study tips here! (Do you see how bad the problem is? I go on Pinterest to find study tips and end up finding a new blog to obsess over) So now I'm sitting in bed brushing my hair and pouring over her thoughts and experiences (not to mention cute clothes pictures, she's a J. Crew fan too <3)



I'm loving her spring cleaning checklist and I am totally going to go over it and do this on my next day off. Lord knows that my life needs a makeover. Clean EVERYTHING and organize like a crazy person. And I just had a shopping spree month and went to the mall with a friend almost every week, so I have a TON of shopaholic clothes/bags/accessories/make up/etc lying around in my room that I haven't found a place for yet. So it looks like I have a game plan for Friday before going to work and Sunday.

She is also in love with Paris, which makes her 10 times cooler in my book. I'm totally jelly of her that she gets to go to France this summer, but that gives me an incentive to mimic her. Why not set a budget for myself with a savings account for a big trip or splurge? I really need to start controlling my shopaholic tendencies. Having a phone and card makes saving so hard though! In less than a minute I can transfer all my money from my savings account to my checking, and boom, shopping spree. I've been thinking about this for a while now, and I definitely need to come up with a good budget and start allotting money for specific things every month (I will need a small splurging pool of money though. If I see a too cute pair of shoes or dress, I will deviate. #shopaholicproblems)

And she has these great disconnecting tips!

Turning your phone off when you're with your friends
Keeping your phone in another room while working
Committing to a specific time every night to spend an hour away from all screens
Turning off push notifications
Collecting phones as a group when out to dinner and turning them all off

I am totally guilty of being a 100% connected person. I am ALWAYS on my iPhone. Like, always. The only time I'm ever not on my phone is when I'm working (because cell phones are strictly forbidden at Chick-fil-A) and when I'm asleep. And even when I'm asleep, my phone is literally right next to my pillow, so if anyone texts, calls, e-mails, etc, I can wake up and answer it (most times I just ignore it and keep sleeping though). I want to try disconnecting, but it's so hard ): My boyfriend hates it. I'm always on my phone and that pulls me away from the people around me, making me give them a lot less attention. So maybe these tips will help me out on this quest. (Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Instagram, Snapchat, Email, texts, and my word games can wait... can't they?)

And then she works for some company called Levo League and they have these 'career mentors' and 'career experts' that do Office Hours, which apparently are really cool and motivational/inspirational 30 minute session webinars about all kinds of great stuff for people like me who like personal growth/leadership/mentor/ things.

It's great. I'm going to spend the next few days bingeing on this blog and the webinars instead of doing whatever else I have to do (: